Dear Friends,

I'd like to share a quote with you:

Years of having the responsibility to deliver eulogies taught me how to look at others. The maspid is instructed to speak positively and generously of the niftar while avoiding exaggeration (Yoreh Deah 344:1). Though some might consider this impossible...given the responsibility to uncover the good in others, we can easily see how every person has unique strengths and qualities, even though left to our own devices we will usually focus on the negatives.

It's a quote that tells you much about the one who said it. 

This week, we learn about the power of a hesped and the two words used by the Torah, "lispod leSarah v'livkosah" might well be referencing to these two components: one is to express the magnitude of the loss, but also to contemplate the ways of the niftar in a way that makes us realize just how special they were. 

And today, we are not just maspid- today we cry.

Both the Orthodox Union and Agudas Yisrael have long, rich histories of representing Klal Yisrael, each with its holy path. At times, those paths diverged, and other times they overlapped, but always, there was mutual respect and appreciation.

In recent years, we've had the privilege of working side-by-side with Rabbi Moshe Hauer, the executive vice-president of the O.U. and a privilege it was - his middos, his dignity, his humility and his ehrlichkeit obligated all of us. As he expressed in the paragraph above, his success came from his ability to see good in whomever he worked with, an ayin tovah that allowed him to do devarim tovim.

His sudden passing is a blow.

At the core of all his activity, the diplomacy, the shtadlanus, the outreach, the chizuk and the bridge-building, was an endless belief in each word of Torah and what those words could do to Yiddishe neshamos.

Rabbi Hauer believed in Torah as the solution to any problem, the greatest source of bracha, of unity, of inspiration and of strength. Attached to this email is a video, one in which you can hear the passion and sincerity in his voice.

This Shabbos marks his shloshim, and with these few lines, we attempt to pay tribute to a great leader and a great friend: may he be mishtadel for us in Shamayim, with his chein and seichel, standing before the Kisei Hakavod and pleading for his family, his talmidim, and the nation he loved with every fiber of his being.

Yehi zichro baruch,

Shloime